There’s no denying that a lot of energy and effort are required to prepare for a date. You put on your best clothes, use the finest perfume, and of course, the jewelry and crystals are the finishing touches, whether you opt for a pair of hoops, a stack of necklaces, or a pair of rings.
But what if crystals worked overtime not just to complete your look but also to boost your energy and aura? That’s where the crystals come in.
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“Crystals have long been used in various cultures for their mystical properties,” says Letao Wang, astrologer and spiritual counselor. “They can amplify self-confidence, attract certain energies, and even influence how others perceive you.” When choosing a crystal to wear on a date, he says it’s important to select one that aligns with what you hope to feel or the type of energy you want to attract while out on the town.
Think about whether you’d like to feel powerful, attractive, or particularly calm and then take a look at your collection of crystals, whether rings, necklaces, or loose stones. You can choose one that has a certain benefit or pick a crystal to wear based on how it makes you feel, as that’s likely the exact energy you need at that moment.
“Wearing the crystal as a visible piece of jewelry allows it to be closer to your energy field, enhancing its effects,” says Wang. “However, simply having the crystal in your pocket or purse will still work.” Here are the top four crystals to wear on a date.
Rose Quartz
If you’re going out for a second or third date and hope this person might be the one, go ahead and put on some rose quartz. This pale pink beauty is known as the stone of love and might be just what you need to take things to the next level.
“It emits a gentle, loving energy that not only boosts your self-love but also your fascination with others, making it perfect for a romantic night out,” says Wang. “Wearing rose quartz can help attract love, promote intimacy, and foster understanding and empathy between two people.”
Astrologer Stina Garbis recommends wearing rose quartz around the neck, like a kind of talisman, but the options are endless when it comes to surrounding yourself with stones. “Personally, I always like [to wear mine] as a bracelet, as it’s convenient and visible,” says Wang.
Fluorite
Another good option is fluorite, a mineral that comes in a variety of gorgeous blues, purples, and greens. This is the one to bring on your date if you’re particularly nervous. According to Wang, fluorite has a stabilizing and harmonizing energy and can help balance emotions.
If your heart is racing, reach into your bag and grab this stone as a reminder to stay calm. “This can be particularly beneficial in stressful situations, like a first date,” he says. Once grounded, it’ll be easier to have clearer communication and a more genuine connection.
To choose the right shade, Wang recommends exploring how you feel in the moment. “The key is to ensure that any crystal you choose is comfortable and harmonious with your energy and intentions.”
Amethyst
Amethyst is a light purple stone that’s easy to wear as a necklace, ring, earrings—or all three. And it’s also extremely powerful. “With its calm, protective aura, amethyst acts as a symbol of serenity and protection,” says Wang. If your head is spinning before a date, this is the stone for you.
“This lovely crystal has the power to alleviate anxiety and stress, providing a state of peace and calm,” he asserts. If you feel nerves creeping up, look to the crystal and take a deep breath. “Known for its sober energies, amethyst can be a gentle companion during social drinks, ensuring your night stays charming and balanced,” he says.
Carnelian
As a dazzling red-orange stone, carnelian is the crystal to choose if you want to feel even more confident, courageous—or even a little sexy—on your date, says Garbis. It’s known for enhancing your aura as well as your creativity, so it should help inspire some fun conversation while you share some appetizers.
Carnelian is also considered a lucky stone. If it seems like you’re standing out in the love department, try wearing it on the next date to attract more romance. Its warm color also sends a subtle signal to come closer and bond, which is exactly the energy you need to meet someone.
Source: Bustle
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